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Nelson Mandela 'awkward in his personal relationships' | Former South African president Nelson Mandela - revered around the globe for his warmth - shares a cold relationship with his family, it has emerged. A collection of his writing, jottings and letters from his long years of captivity on Robben Island in a new book, 'Conversations With Myself,' has highlighted cold, rather stilted tone of
Mandela's letters to his family during his long years of imprisonment. The stuff
of normal correspondence between loved ones has been entirely absent. Instead,
Mandela's letters to his children contain his thoughts on contemporary events,
almost as if they were written for posterity. "When we meet I hug and kiss him-but
I don't know if he loves me," the Daily Mail quoted Mandela's oldest surviving
child, Makaziwe Mandela, as saying. Makaziwe, known as Maki, although is now at
peace with her father but she said that she struggled for years with feelings
of anger and abandonment. "As a child, before my father went to prison, I yearned
to have both of my parents in my life, but it was my mother who brought me up.
I had a father who had been there but not really there. He was not available to
us. "It sounds strange, but Dad and I developed a better relationship when he
was in prison," she said. Even though the letters sent by Mandela were lacking
in emotion, they at least provided Maki with some personal contact. "But when
he came out of jail, he was just swallowed by the world and by South Africa .
"I still think that after he was released, he should have created some space for
the family, for his children. We were ignored, or at least not acknowledged, while
he was preoccupied with politics," said Makki. "I really do think he could have
done things a little bit differently. Even now, when he's got more time, he doesn't
make the effort to really engage. He's open and extrovert to the world, but awkward
in his intimate personal relationships with his own family," she added.
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